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Anonymous: I have been married for over 14 years now and have lost interest in the relationship. I have tried to broach the issue with my husband too who refuses to address it and instead prefers to sweep things below the carpet. 'What difference does it make?' he says as a regular retort. I cannot stay in a relationship sans love. What do I do?

Niti Ahuja
Relationship Coach

It can be very difficult to feel disconnected from your partner and to see no resolution in sight. It's important to remember that relationships take work, and communication is key.

If your husband is not willing to address the issues in your relationship, it may be helpful to seek out couples counseling or therapy. A neutral third party can help facilitate communication and work towards finding a resolution that works for both of you.

If your husband continues to refuse to address the issues and you feel that staying in the relationship is not an option, it may be time to consider ending the marriage. This is a difficult decision to make, but it's important to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.

Before making any decisions, take some time to reflect on what you truly want and need in a relationship. Consider speaking with a therapist or trusted friend to help you gain clarity and perspective.

Remember, it's never easy to end a relationship, but sometimes it's the best decision for everyone involved.